Raw And Real with Sakshi

  “You’re not being let go because you failed. The system is changing — and we’re all just trying to survive it.”

Betrayal doesn't always arrive with screaming, chaos, or closure. Sometimes, it leaves quietly. It leaves in silence. And that silence can be the loudest, most painful sound you've ever known. 💔 When Trust Breaks, So Does Your Sense of Safety One of the most heartbreaking parts of betrayal is how quickly the person who once felt like “home” can become a stranger. They don't even need to speak; their absence says enough. You question everything: Was any of it real? How could they walk away so easily? Why didn’t they fight for us? But the deeper ache isn’t just about the betrayal — it’s about the emptiness that follows. That haunting, confusing quiet. 🕯️ The Silent Aftermath: Where Healing Meets Loneliness After betrayal, your world doesn’t just fall apart — it becomes quieter. No more late-night messages. No good mornings. No familiar laugh on the other end of a phone call. What’s left is a silence that screams: “They’re gone. And they’re not co...

  Why Middle-Class Life Is a Journey of Dreams and Discipline

  Sometimes, love isn't the missing piece. You gave them your heart, your time, your loyalty—and still, they cheated. Not because you weren’t enough, but because something inside them wasn’t. This post isn’t just about betrayal. It’s about understanding the why behind infidelity that feels senseless. It's about healing without blaming yourself for someone else's choices. 💔 When Love Isn’t the Problem Cheating often isn’t a reflection of how much love was present in a relationship—it’s a reflection of what’s missing inside the person who strayed. Here’s what cheating is sometimes really about: Emotional Avoidance: Some people use affairs to escape from facing their own wounds, insecurities, or unresolved trauma. Addiction to Novelty: They crave newness—not because they’re unfulfilled by you, but because they’re running from routine, even stability. Ego Boosts: Flirting, attention, or the thrill of secrecy can temporarily fill a deep void in their self-e...

🧠 What Is Emotional Anesthesia? Emotional anaesthesia isn’t a medical term — it’s a psychological reality. It’s that deep, hollow numbness you feel when life gets too heavy, and instead of breaking down... You just shut down . Joy doesn’t excite you Grief doesn’t move you You laugh, but it doesn’t reach your soul We often associate pain with loud emotions. But sometimes, the scariest pain is silence — when you feel nothing at all . 🌪️ Why Does Emotional Anesthesia Happen? This state is often your brain’s coping mechanism . When you’re constantly battling stress, trauma, or grief, your body enters emotional survival mode . It numbs you to protect you. 💥 Common Triggers: Long-term burnout Suppressed heartbreak Childhood trauma Repeated rejection Silent grief Anxiety or depression 🧩 Signs You Might Be Emotionally Numb Numbness isn’t always obvious — it whispers. Here’s how it may look: You feel disconnected from your own life Deep conversati...

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